Pudding wants to talk about something important today.
Sometimes friendships feel a little wobbly.
Sometimes a friend seems quiet, or distant, or different ā and we donāt know why.
And that can make our feelings feel very big and very heavy.
Hereās something to remember:
Your friends have big feelings too.
Just like you.
Sometimes when a friend seems a bit different ā itās not about you at all.
They might be carrying something heavy that has nothing to do with you.
When a friendship feels confusing, try this:
Take one slow breath.
Ask yourself: is my friend okay?
And if you can ā just sit beside them.
You donāt always need the right words.
Sometimes just being there is enough. š¾
Pudding says:
The kindest thing you can do for a wobbly friendship is show up.
Even quietly.
Even without knowing what to say.
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